Fifteen years ago, after the death of her husband, Gao Changqing, a peasant woman of Songjiagou Village in Zhangjiao Township, Gingshui County, remarried with her mother-in-law and young children to take care of her elderly blind mother. She was borne by the burden of poverty while she took care of herself better than her mother. Mother-in-law. With silent filial piety and true love, we warmed an old man who had no blood relationship with him. Until May of this year, the 87-year-old mother-in-law passed away peacefully.

"If your mother-in-law doesn't follow, you won't be married."

At the beginning of 1997, Gao Changqing’s husband died of accident. She was only 31 years old. Her son, who was less than three years old, and her 72-year-old mother-in-law left for care. "It was very difficult at the time and the baby girl was too old."

Her mother-in-law, Bo Jinglian, though she couldn’t see her eyes, had a bright heart in her heart. She had repeatedly advised her to say, “Let's get married and get married. I can't hold you down forever...” “To be honest, one person is too tired. He also wanted to find a partner, but he couldn't lose his poor mother-in-law.” Gao Changqing said that she was in a conflict. After her husband died, her mother-in-law had no other relatives. If she does not care, can her mother live? Gao Changqing decided to marry someone after her mother’s repeated persuasion. But she said to the former pro-matchmaker that she said: "If you want to marry, you will bring your mother-in-law and your mother-in-law won't follow and you won't marry!"

In 1998, Gao Changqing and Zhang Lingchang met each other. Zhang Ling often told reporters that when he first went to Gao Changqing’s home, the house still leaked rain. "If she was taken away (Gao Changqing), no one would take care of her mother-in-law?" Zhang Lingchang said, after getting married, he must take the old man home. “In the past, my family lived in Heluo Village in Tranlin Town. It was very far from here. He came to my house for the first time to pick me up. I knew that he had a good heart and married him.” recalls Gao Changqing.

Carrying her mother to a new home

Because her mother-in-law was inconvenient, Gao Changqing and her husband literally walked over a dozen miles away from their mother-in-law and came to Zhang.

As we get older, my mother-in-law’s body is getting worse and worse. With binocular blindness, eating and drinking Lazard depends on the care of others. Gao Changqing is waiting for her mother-in-law every day and then drives her to work more than a dozen miles. Her mother-in-law is often incontinent, and she gets squatted on the bedding. Gao Changqing comes back and says nothing. She quickly cleans her body and replaces the bedding.

"She (Gao Changqing) is very good to me, very good to her mother-in-law, and also very good to my parents. I have never faced and quarrelled with us for so many years." Zhang Ling often said that in the more than 10 years she took care of her mother-in-law. In order to improve her life for her mother-in-law, Gao Changqing often does not buy new clothes for several years and squeezes money to buy some fish and let her mother eat well.

Gao Changqing’s son and husband, Chang Ling Chang, also took good care of the elderly. Every winter, the first thing that Zhang Ling Chang gets up from is to come to the kitchen to make a fire. The purpose of firing is not to cook, but to prepare for the fire. When the old man gets up, let her warm. When I come back from work, Gao Gaoqing’s son will buy something for his grandmother and talk to her grandmother.

Take care of four elderly people for a long time

To mention the filial piety of Gao Changqing and Zhang Lingchang, Songjiagou Village is well-known. "I have never heard the quarrels from their families. The family is very kind. It is really good for the elderly for more than a decade. It is very rare," said the neighbor next door.

After Gao Changqing married Zhang Lingchang, in addition to her mother, the 81-year-old father-in-law and her 80-year-old mother-in-law, and her own mother-in-law, Gao Changqing would serve four elderly people and take care of their daily life. In addition to having to take care of the children, and to clean up the housework, long-term exertion has caused Gao Changqing to suffer from rheumatic heart disease.

The doctor in the Songjiagou Village Clinic said, “As long as the old man is a bit uncomfortable, she (Gao Changqing) will come to the clinic to see the elderly.” Neighbors all visibly admire the filial “good wife”.

“If you can’t afford it, you can’t afford it. Your mother-in-law is your father-in-law. When you are a prostitute, why don’t you hurt her?” In 2011, Gao Changqing was named the third moral model in Shandong Province. Gao Changqing said that she can always stay with her mother-in-law and let her mother live in her old age. She is also happy and happy. "Now the mother-in-law is gone. I have to continue to take care of my in-laws here. I will let them stay in their old age."

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